Heverinao ve fa tsy mitovy amin'ny olon-drehetra ianao, tsy manana namana ary imbetsaka no lazaina fa manao fihetsika hafahafa ianao? Mety ho famantarana ny aretin-tsaina ve izany? Ekaterina Mikhailova, mpitsabo aretin-tsaina sy manam-pahaizana ao amin'ny gazety Psychologies, namaly.
Ekaterina Mikhailova
Noho izany, ry Anonyme: or you have a plainly unspoken question, or you can not read further. Every letter is somewhat similar to the author, and yours too: thoughts jump, then one thing is remembered, then another … It seems scary that some is not like that, there are no friends, you don’t like your parents, you don’t work, but you go — I want new tests, and certainly “about personality”. And all for the sake of answering the question “Am I crazy”?
Tsia mazava ho azy. Zavatra hafa koa no angatahinao: lazao ahy hoe iza aho, fa ny tenako tsy azoko. Mitranga izany amin'ny 16-17 taona, saingy 24 taona ianao. Ary toa, miaina toy ny zatovo ianao ...
Tsara ny mahita izay azonao atao tsara, inona no fahaiza-manao tsy nivoatra tao anatin'io korontana be resaka izay nampilentika ny fanairana io.
And I’ll tell you this: you are not a «crazy», but just a very, very neglected person, manirery, tsy milamina, ary mikorontana ao an-dohako. Tena tsy nitaiza anao araka ny tokony ho izy angamba ny ray aman-dreninao, nefa tsy ho lehibe intsony. Ka ny hany safidy dia ny manabe ny tenanao.
And I would start not with friends, but with attention, thinking and speech. If you are interested in tests — great, find a way to test your attention and solve logic puzzles. If necessary, find exercises for attention, even for children, no one will know anyway. Breaking will be terrible: boring, tedious, and you are “too cool”, yeah. But until you teach yourself at least some kind of composure and patience, nothing else will work either, it will continue to throw from “scary” to “do not care” and vice versa, and life passes.
Misy hery be, nefa tsy misy tanjona dia mandeha amin'ny faribolana, attached to nothing. It would be good to find out what you can do well, what abilities did not develop in that talkative chaos in which you drown the alarm. Your oddities are of no interest to anyone, so stop flaunting them, but you really need help. Only you don’t know how to get it, and no one has it. So all hope is in yourself — such as it is.